“Me scusa, una demanda.”
Translation(roughly)=”Excuse me, I have a question.”
Used=when you’re lost.
Today has been about 2 weeks since I last got a migraine. I guess that’s better than one. Still, I’m in the centrale commerciale (mall) waiting outside for girls grocery shopping-which I was excited for, but my stomach was still doing back flips at the time-so we could go back to the apartments. I think it might have been food poisoning because I ordered proshuitto (like ham) on a panini and I don’t think it was cooked all the way. Lydia passed out earlier in the tour of the biblioteca (library) and Angelica (Filiberto’s wife and coordinator of the apartments) took her back to her apartment. I think the culture shock is catching up to us.
This is the first time I’ve been completely alone in Italy since I got here. It’s kind of peaceful. I’m getting some curious looks, but not like when we’re in big groups. This semester might be the hardest I will ever do—even if I’m only taking 13/14 credits. I didn’t realize that until actually getting here, how stressful and how much energy goes into living in a foreign country where hardly anyone speaks your language. One of our professors, Doctor Jamie Smith (Alma College) said that some students were learning English, but choose not to speak it. It’s frustrating. Maybe this will get better but it’s more difficult to adjust than I ever imagined. Coming to Italy with the band and orchestra in 10th grade was amazing, but a completely different experience- I almost feel like I’m in a whole different country.
I can already tell I’m picking up a lot. Just from being here 3 days. I figured I could get by speaking English, but when you’re forced to learn a language to survive, you learn fast—so much faster than I learned Spanish in school. But Spanish is helping me, mostly with pronunciation. Some of the words are the same or similar. Italians talk slower than Spanish speakers do, so that helps. Apparently, almost every region in Italy has a different dialect. We’re in Marche and the nearest region to us is Umbria. So it’s similar to Marche. But in southern Italian Dr. Smith said that the c’s are silent and sound like h’s. So they say, for example, “Vorrei un hoca-hola” = “I want a coca-cola.”
The locals dress nice. They all wear the same trends. All the girls in the program thought we were smart by bringing our classy pea coats so we’d fit in here...These Italians are always going to be one step ahead of us in the fashion world. Puffy, plastic coats are huge right now. Everyone wears them. Mostly black, but I’ve seen other colors too (purple, red, blue, white). All the women wear boots and dark jeans. The guys wear dark jeans and nice shoes and scarves (which I absolutely love-men should wear scarves more). Everyone looks Italian, to put it simply. Dark hair, dark eyes, nice clothes. I’ve seen two redheads maybe and I think only one was actually naturally red. So yes, I stick out a bit.
It’s colder today than it was yesterday. I don’t know how that’s possible. I guess the Adriatic Sea is like 20 miles away and we’re supposed to be able to see it on a clear day (we’re still waiting for that). Italians voted against building nuclear power plants in Italy so they pay a ton more to import power from France…hmm. We can only have our heat on in the apartment for 10 hours a day. We have to turn it off when we leave. Hsuan Hsuan blew a circuit just by trying to blow dry her hair while the heat was on. We’re basically camping out in a 19th century Italian penthouse. So weird. I sleep in two pairs of socks, sweats, layered shirts, my fleece. I even pulled out the throw I stole from one of the flights over here. You would think, being from Michigan, I could stand the cold, but this is 24/7.
We found our breakfast nook. Il Laboratorio del Grano. It has dolces (pastries), pizzas, and pane (bread). The woman that works there is from Croatia and has only been in Italy for 3 years. She can speak Italian well and a little English. She’s really nice and doesn’t mind a bunch of confused girls packed into her bakery. I got a proschuitto crescent for breakfast. It was amazing and only .80 euro.
I am writing soooo much. It hasn’t even been a week yet.
My parents just called for the first time. I thought I was going to cry.
On the bus on the way back from the mall, a woman sitting across from all the Macerata girls (I guess that’s what I’ll call us) eyed us and then crossed herself. I tried so hard not to laugh.
6:00pm:
So I’m at the point where someone has to come get me because I’m so lost—well ½ way lost. At least I’m not alone. Hsuan Hsuan is with me and it’s true, that saying, about living only being in happiness when shared or something. We’re only ½ way lost because we’re trying to find Noelle and Rai’s apartment, two other Macerata girls. We asked two Italian women for help. They were really nice and tried to help. I heard them call us English and they knew the words “left” and “down” so those little words helped to a point. Before we got out of the walled city (where we live) we passed a lot of people out for the traditional evening “strolling time” where young people and couples come out and walk around and socialize. Hsuan Hsuan smiled at a group of boys and I guess that was an invitation to them because they pointed at us and yelled and one started following us, but we just kept walking. I don’t know enough Italian to even make a fool of myself yet.
Noelle, Rai, Hsuan Hsuan and I all went to Pizzeria del Corso which was a favorite spot of students in the past. I tried calling ahead to ask the hours and tried asking in Italian, but all I got out of what the man said was “pronto” which I guess meant “now.” So we went. The pizza was pretty good and everything’s been pretty cheap. I got a bottle of water and a slice of pizza for less than 2 euro. The owner was really nice, though. He speaks a little English and was really patient with us. I talked to him a little and asked him to help me translate my phone (I keep getting text messages in Italian). He said his name is Gigi. And those are the moments that all the stress pays off. I just ordered food, introduced myself, and met a local, all speaking Italian. I needed that confidence boost.
Some of the girls from the other apartments came over and brought some wine. Then we went to a Beatles cover band concert for a little tonight because it was free. One of the ushers was an English teacher at the local high school and wanted some of us to come and talk to her class. The band members were middle aged-like the crowd. I love the Beatles, don’t get me wrong, but we didn’t stay too long. Some of the girls went out to find bars and Hsuan Hsuan and I went back to find our beds.
Oh yeah. To flush our toilet we have to pull a string from the ceiling. It broke today. Ciao.